As we celebrate Deafblind Awareness Week 2025, it’s more important than ever to share the stories that highlight the daily realities of those living with both sight and hearing loss. Deafblindness doesn’t define a person but the barriers in society often do. This week is about raising awareness, understanding the challenges, and more than anything, putting a spotlight on the experience of deafblind individuals.
In this blog post, Lesley shares a story that started with nerves in a town square library and grew into a bond built on humour, respect, and a shared love of champagne. It’s the story of Angela – and what she has taught Lesley, as a communication and guiding professional, about the importance of listening, trusting, and never underestimating the power of inclusion.
A Meeting That Sparked a Friendship
I first met Angela while studying for my qualifications in communication and guiding for Deafblind people. As a British Sign Language interpreter and lipspeaker, I had worked with many deaf clients – but I had never supported someone who was deafblind.
We met in a local library, along with her husband. I was naturally nervous, but within minutes, I felt completely at ease. Angela and I clicked immediately—our shared sense of humour and a mutual appreciation for bubbles (the Champagne kind!) sealed our connection.
The Bra Shopping Adventure
Soon after, I was entrusted with the task of taking Angela shopping for a new bra. I wasn’t sure what to expect, but I knew I wanted to make it a positive, empowering experience.
We chose M&S and were met with walls of colours, fabrics, and styles. Supporting Angela to make an informed choice was crucial. With the help of a professional bra fitter, we navigated the options. Angela left with a bag full of bras in shades to match her wardrobe – even though she sees only a small window of grey.
When her husband asked how she could choose so many colours, I explained that we’d talked through the colours of the rainbow, and Angela could visualise them from memory. Something so simple – and yet so powerful.
From Christmas Puddings to Rollercoasters
Our friendship blossomed quickly. We soon found ourselves making Christmas puddings together – a dream of hers. From shopping for tins and ingredients to whipping up three plump puddings (one for charity!), the experience was full of joy.
Then came “international travel” (as we jokingly called it) to an England Deaf Bowls tournament. We explored the Titanic Museum, braved a rollercoaster, and proved that no one is ever too old for the funfair.
More than anything, we enjoy each other’s company. Communication and guiding are just the beginning. What really matters is trust, respect, and empowering people to live their lives fully – even if I did question her idea to go apple bobbing. I was soon proved wrong, of course.
Beyond the Label: Angela’s Can-Do Attitude
Being Deafblind has undoubtedly been life-changing for Angela and her family but her strength lies in her refusal to let her dual sensory loss define her. She lives with a “can-do” spirit that continues to inspire me and everyone around her.
I’ve now achieved my Level 3 qualification in guiding and communication – the highest available in the UK. But it’s disheartening to know that there are currently only eight Deafblind interpreters across the country. Eight. That’s simply not enough.
Without access to professional support, deafblind individuals can miss out on healthcare, culture, and social connection. That’s not acceptable.
Let’s Do More – This Week and Beyond
Living in the same town, I’m able to support Angela both professionally and socially. Whether it’s coffee or champagne, we make time for regular catch-ups. This consistency helps combat the social isolation that many deafblind people face every day.
But there’s so much more to be done. We need more trained interpreters, better public awareness, and stronger government action. A recent campaign to improve access for deafblind people seems to have fallen – quite literally – on deaf ears. We must do better.
So, this Deafblind Awareness Week, let’s raise our voices. Let’s share stories and challenge assumptions.
If you’d like to learn more or find out how to help, please reach out to Deafblind UK or contact me through Lipspeaker UK. You can also email me directly at lesley@lipspeaker.co.uk
